This was also an immensely popular blog I posted on Myspace in 2006. People have told me they use the last part as a type of meditation, and it always leaves them feeling complete and whole. From that place of wholeness, you can choose to visualize differently, or just use the feeling to…well, feel good for a while!
However you decide, it is my pleasure to share this article with you today…
Many people have asked me over the years if I believe in the concept of “Soulmates.” My answer has always been consistent: If you believe you are meant to be with “the one,” then you are.
On the other side of it, if you find that belief not resonant with how you feel, but yet are not adverse to relationships, then perhaps you are a person who will have many soulmate type of connections over your life. Neither is wrong.
In either situation, the following is formula key to remember:
1+1 = One
What do I mean by that?
Quite simply, it means that when two people come together, whole in and of themselves, then it creates an even more wonderful “One.” When that is the case, and you are whole in and of yourself, not looking for another to “complete” you, then the original question becomes moot. You can always enjoy the Now, whether now ends up being five days or five decades.
I’ll say it three ways:
*You are already complete in and of yourself. You have both masculine and feminine attributes, and you have all of the resources you need within yourself.
*Be your own Lover to yourself and you will find that reflecting in the external to the extent that you Love yourself.
*If you are in Love with yourself, then others will be in Love with you.
Essentially, this is the Law of Attraction at work.
Many people try to find this internal harmony and create this love affair artificially, creating more of an arrogance or conceit. Of course, that energy is like a beacon that actually exaggerates the insecurity below hundreds of times over.
Your Heart will know it if you don’t really believe you are worthy of Love
|I tell you, you ARE!
Yes, no matter what you’ve done, mistakes you’ve made in the past, how your body or face looks, what education you do or don’t have, the money you have or feel you lack, whether you live in a penthouse or a van down by the river, whether you are short or tall, black or white, whether you are Christian, Jewish, Wiccan, Islamic, Buddhist, Hindu, agnostic, or atheist, whether you grew up in a two-parent household or in an orphanage, whether you were the star jock or the geeky nerd, whether you have blue eyes or brown, whether you have ten kids or are barren, whether you own a sportscar or a jalopy, whether you are homeless and poor, or rich and famous….
No matter who you are or where you are…
You deserve Love. You are worthy of Love.
Now say it to yourself, Beloved…
I am worthy of Love. I deserve Love.
Breathe it in deeper, and let your lungs fill with life. Then, let your inner Masculine say to your Feminine…I love you. I will lead you into actions that protect you, and build you up, thus building us both up. I breathe my Light of courage into your Being, and illuminate your path with golden beams of adoration. I cherish you, and I will bring into manifestation your deepest Heart’s most sensuous desires. Your wish is my command, Beloved…
And really feel it.
Then, breathe in again and hear your soft, melodic Feminine voice say to her Man. I love you. I give you permission to enter your Light into me so I can expand the entire Universe for You. I shall sustain and nourish you, and love you up so big, that you feel completely free and limitless, because you are. I envelop you with a renewable, eternal empowerment. I bring you Infinity. We shall be united for all Eternity, my dearest Beloved…
Wow…how do you feel now?
See what I mean about the original question as now being not applicable?
The moment you are truly in love with yourself, love will find you, reflected in your outside world.
Remember, you are worthy. Fall in love with yourself. And also remember…
1 + 1 = One
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